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o0slowpaul0o
Recent'y me and my girlfriend, Anna had broke up (After a 2 year relationship) because of an argument between me and her which was coursed by my brother and didn't believe me (Don't want to go in all that crap).

I haven't seen her in 2 weeks untill today (8/12/2005, just in case some reads this the next day). My problem is the fact Anna wants to get back with me on one condition, that is dropping out of College. I can't exsactly do that because I have BTec Level3, exams comming up in Art and Animation. I'm also half way through my second year, so it would be a shame to drop out now. The other part of the problem, is she won't go home and she needs me, because she won't get a job while keeping the baby (Of course I offered to look after him while she works). She didn't accept that, she is also not living with her parents, so its alot more tough for her than me. Of course my parents don't want to get involved.

So now I'm inbetween her and College which leaves me nit knowing what to do.
Dan C
This really isn't something I think anyone but yourself can decide. It all depends on what happened, why, what you want and how much you love each other... we can't tell you that.

Good luck though, I hope everything works out. original.gif
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QUOTE(o0slowpaul0o @ Dec 8 2005, 02:06 PM) *
Recent'y me and my girlfriend, Anna had broke up (After a 2 year relationship) because of an argument between me and her which was coursed by my brother and didn't believe me (Don't want to go in all that crap).

I haven't seen her in 2 weeks untill today (8/12/2005, just in case some reads this the next day). My problem is the fact Anna wants to get back with me on one condition, that is dropping out of College. I can't exsactly do that because I have BTec Level3, exams comming up in Art and Animation. I'm also half way through my second year, so it would be a shame to drop out now. The other part of the problem, is she won't go home and she needs me, because she won't get a job while keeping the baby (Of course I offered to look after him while she works). She didn't accept that, she is also not living with her parents, so its alot more tough for her than me. Of course my parents don't want to get involved.

So now I'm inbetween her and College which leaves me nit knowing what to do.


Is it your baby??
If not tell her to take a walk. Anyone that would pose a condition like that on a relationship is a total Barney's GF.
IF it's your kid, you gotta do the right thing. The right thing may actually mean staying in school so you can provide a better future for the child,
Wilko
I thought you was in a big accident or something blink.gif
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